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How Can I Better My Marriage?

November 10, 2010

Every month in my Ultimate Marriage class we are taking on challenges to bring us closer as a couple, which ultimately brings us closer to God. This month’s challenge is based on TOGETHERNESS:

We talked about 4 things that will GREATLY contribute to the togetherness of your marriage…

2 Things a wife needs more to feel bonded to her husband:

  1. Affection – genuine affection with no strings attached is a wife’s greatest need.
  2. Conversation – wife’s second greatest need  and one of the keys to giving affection.

2 Things  a husband needs most to feel bonded to his wife:

  1. Sexual Fulfillment – the most powerful need in marriage and equal to the wife’s need for affection.
  2. Shared Activity – primary way men bond wtih others in through a shared activity.

Galations 6:7 says, “Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked.  A man reaps what he sows.” 

What ways do you spend most of your time each day? This week I am working on trying to spend less time on the computer, doing house work, cleaning up after the kids, etc. and more time with my husband. After all, it is our 4-year anniversary this week! I am also trying to purposely schedule dates for us to spend more time together alone. I am asking him to pray with me and praying for our marriage.

What is your husband’s greatest need? Can you think of ways you can spend more time together? 

I pray that God gives you some insight on what you can do this week to better your marriage and make more time for each other. I pray that you will have the Ultimate Marriage that God intended for us to have!



2 Comments leave one →
  1. Desiray permalink
    November 16, 2010 3:52 pm

    Love your post on the marriage…God bless you

    • November 18, 2010 5:54 pm

      God Bless You too!! Love your blog. Keep up the good work!

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